Will Smith opened up about his marriage to Jada Pinkett of 11 years. In an intimate interview with Now Magazine (UK), he talks about being honest and open with his wife, even about being attracted to other women…

“Our perspective is, you don’t avoid what’s natural and you’re going to be attracted to people” Will explains.”So sometimes we have the discussion: “Wow, this or that girl is freaking gorgeous”. I’m not going to say anything to my buddies that’s any different than what I say to my wife.”
 
Will said that if he ever comes to a point where he can’t resist having sex with someone else other than his wife, he would want to first get approval from Jada before even thinking about cheating on her.

“If it came down to it, then one would say to the other: Look, I need to have sex with somebody. Now I’m not going to do it if you don’t approve of it,” he says.
 
“In our marriage vows, we didn’t say “forsaking all others”. We said, “You will never hear I did something afterwards”. Because if that happens, the relationship is destroyed.”
 
Will confessed that he doesn’t know if he would accept the fact that Jada would want to be with another man. “I don’t know how I’d feel,” he confesses. “But I know I would react better than if I found out about it afterwards.”

So, I have to ask my readers this…HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT BEING “OPEN” WITH YOUR SPOUSE? IS YOUR RELATIONSHIP SIMILAR TO THE “SMITHS”? WOULD YOU WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO TELL YOU IF HE/SHE HAD A DESIRE TO SLEEP WITH SOMEONE ELSE?

Speak on it! I’m curious to hear your thoughts about this subject…

THANKS SIMONE FOR THE ARTICLE!

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